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My son, if there was one sentence that summarizes my Bitcoin journey that I would love to pass onto you, it would be this:
Conviction cannot be borrowed from others; it can only be formed by you.
That single line is a major central learning of my entire Bitcoin journey. Everything else in this book — every chapter, every story, every lesson — is building from this profound truth I learned.
When I first started studying Bitcoin, I didn’t have much foundation in personal finance or money. I was trying to understand an entirely new form of money while also trying to understand what money is itself. And because Bitcoin has no central authority (no CEO, no ruler, no single voice), the landscape was flooded with dissenting, divisive opinions. It got noisy fast. Everyone had a take. Many of them were confident. Many of them contradicted each other. Some were tempting to follow blindly. And without a foundation of my own, I could feel myself reaching for whichever voice sounded the most sure.
That’s when I had to turn inwards and self-reflect: if no one is coming to save me and I am fully responsible for myself, then what is it going to take for me to build my own conviction, instead of just following other’s advice blindly (which I had been doing for some time)?
I started where I always start when things feel confusing and lost: my foundational moral values. Who I choose to BE based on my principles. That will guide me on what to DO (or where I contribute my time, energy, money, and myself to). From there, I will HAVE joy & peace by being in alignment.
Three emerged.
Truth. Before Bitcoin is a monetary network, it is a system of truth. Every transaction, every coin in existence, every rule of the protocol is verifiable by anyone, anywhere, at any time. Nothing is hidden. Nothing can be rewritten. There is no authority that can quietly change the rules in the middle of the game. And I’ll tell you this: it requires a lot of courage to pursue and stand for Truth, especially when it can be against an overwhelming majority saying otherwise. After seven years of my own spiritual and self-development journey, I had promised myself that I will always summon the courage to pursue Truth, even when my ego is fighting with every convincing argument to do otherwise. And when I saw that Bitcoin was engineered around an uncompromising commitment to that same value — that it does not bend, does not lie, does not flatter whoever is in power — I knew this was more than money. This was a moral instrument.
Fairness. Bitcoin does not discriminate. The rules are the same for the billionaire, for your grandmother, for a child born in a country I’ve never heard of. No one gets an early allocation. No one can print more for themselves. No one can confiscate what is properly held. To see others manipulate the old financial system to benefit themselves at the expense of others’ well-being is not something I could ever contribute to, and it’s not something I want you to accept either. Bitcoin is the first form of money in human history that enforces fairness not through trust in human institutions, but through math and code that cannot be bribed, lobbied, or coerced.
Radical self-responsibility. Bitcoin empowers me to take full control of my money. Full ownership. Full agency. It does not ask me to trust a bank, a custodian, a wealth manager, or a government. It hands the keys — literally — to me. And with that comes a cost: convenience. It is harder than pressing a button on an app someone else built. But with that cost comes a reward I had never experienced before I studied Bitcoin: real freedom. The freedom to choose how I live and how I transact without needing anyone’s permission. The freedom to take full responsibility for my own decisions and the consequences that come with them. Bitcoin does not let you outsource. And that is exactly why it changes you.
My values are the first thing I return to when my conviction gets questioned.
The second thing I return to is first principles.
First principles. First principles are the foundational truths of something: the bedrock facts that cannot be reduced any further and do not depend on anyone’s opinion. When you think from first principles, you stop arguing about surface-level noise like price, sentiment, headlines, who’s bullish, who’s bearish, and you return to what is actually, objectively true about the thing itself. The reason it matters is simple: when the noise is loudest, first principles are the only ground solid enough to stand on.
Bitcoin has its own set of first principles, and I want you to know them by heart. Not as slogans. As foundations.
Fixed supply of 21 million. There will never be more. No authority can change this. Scarcity in Bitcoin is not a marketing claim; it is mathematically enforced and economically incentivized by every participant in the network.
Proof-of-work. Every Bitcoin in existence was created through real energy expended in the physical world. Unlike fiat currency, Bitcoin cannot be willed into existence. It must be earned through work. That is what gives it integrity.
Decentralization. There is no central server, no central company, no central founder with a kill switch. The network runs because thousands of independent participants around the world voluntarily run it. It cannot be shut down without shutting down the internet itself (and the incentive of that happening is 0).
Immutability. Once a transaction is confirmed and buried under enough blocks, it cannot be reversed, censored, or altered. Not by me, not by a bank, not by a government. The history of Bitcoin is permanent.
Permissionless. You do not need anyone’s approval to use Bitcoin. No application, no credit check, no government ID, no gatekeeper. If you have the keys, you have the money.
Self-custody. You, and only you, can hold the private keys to your Bitcoin. This is the line that separates true ownership from IOUs. If someone else holds your keys, you do not own Bitcoin. You own a promise.
Open source. The code is public. Anyone can read it, audit it, run it, or fork it. There are no secrets, no back doors, no privileged access.
When my conviction wavers, I do not argue with the noise. I come back to these. I ask myself: has any of this changed? Is 21 million still 21 million? Is the network still running? Is proof-of-work still securing it? Can I still hold my own keys? Every time I run through these first principles, the noise collapses. The foundation is still there, and what’s happening is human emotion at play. My conviction walks back onto solid ground.
My son, I want you to do the same. When the world gets loud, and it will, return first to your values, and second to Bitcoin’s first principles. These are the two anchors that will hold you when opinions, prices, and personalities try to pull you off course.
I want to tell you about a mistake I made before I learned this, because it’s the exact mistake I’m writing this book to help you avoid.
When I exited my first company, I had earned a financial windfall. First of the family. Despite feeling successful, I felt completely powerless with it. I didn’t know how to manage it, grow it, or preserve it. So I handed it to a wealth manager I had no resonance with, and I recited a story in my mind: I’m not capable to do this work. That story sounded like humility. It was actually abdication. I was not just outsourcing the management of my money; I was outsourcing financial responsibility. I was borrowing their conviction. And it did not feel good. What pains me even more is that I see so many people around the world doing the same thing, probably unconsciously.
It was only when I started studying Bitcoin that it took me down a deep rabbit hole of what money is, the history of money, different types of money, and so on. After months, I started to feel like I FINALLY understood what I had been so oblivious to in the past. And one day soon after, I decided to take action on that knowledge and value alignment by shifting my wealth into Bitcoin. I knew I was ready when not only my conviction was forming stronger, but also that I was able to fully own my decisions and any consequences that came with this massive shift. That felt both empowering and liberating.
Funny thing was this was during a bull market, which I’ll admit made it easier. But the real test came in the bear market that followed, when the voices got loud again and I found myself questioning.
Here’s what I learned in those moments: conviction is not a one-time arrival. Conviction is formed under pressure. When the noise is loudest and confusion feels chaotic. It’s a muscle to keep working out. And the way I made it stronger, every time, was to go back to remembering my personal values I stood for (and ensuring those were absolutely true for me) and self-reflecting on Bitcoin’s fundamentals and first-principles.
Once I understood this, it reinforced the value of self-responsibility via personal agency. I am fully responsible for the financial success of my life and thus our family’s, so I get to keep building my conviction by putting in the hours, time, and work. And soon it will be your responsibility for your family.
My son, I know you will face this exact temptation. When you receive your Bitcoin inheritance and you feel unsure of what you believe, there will be voices louder, smarter, and more confident than yours telling you what to do. Some will tell you to sell. Some will tell you to outsource it to someone who “knows better” and thus give up your self-custody. And if I am not here when that moment comes, I want you to do one thing: come back to this book.
Not to follow my journey blindly. Not to borrow my conviction. But to study my process and the values, the wisdom, and the lessons I accumulated in the exact moments I was questioning myself, so you can reflect on them, get clear on what values you stand for, critical think from first-principles, and form your own firm conviction.
Because that is the only kind that holds.
Conviction cannot be borrowed from others. It can only be formed by you.
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